refactor: decouple meta plugins from DB via SaveMetaFn callback, extract shared utilities

- Add SaveMetaFn callback pattern: meta plugins receive a closure instead of
  &Connection, enabling the same plugin code to work in local, client, and
  server contexts (collect-to-Vec, collect-to-HashMap, or direct DB write)
- Client save now runs meta plugins locally during streaming (smart client
  sets meta=false, server skips its own plugins)
- Add POST /api/item/{id}/update endpoint for re-running plugins on stored
  content without downloading compressed data
- Add client update mode (--update with --meta-plugin flags)
- Extract shared utilities: stream_copy, print_serialized, build_path_table,
  ensure_default_tag to reduce duplication across modes
- Add upsert_tag for idempotent tag addition (INSERT OR IGNORE)
- Add warn logging on save_meta lock failure in BaseMetaPlugin and MetaService

src/meta_plugin/read_time.rs

@@ -37,6 +37,14 @@ impl MetaPlugin for ReadTimeMetaPlugin {
         self.is_finalized = finalized;
     }
 
+    fn set_save_meta(&mut self, save_meta: crate::meta_plugin::SaveMetaFn) {
+        self.base.set_save_meta(save_meta);
+    }
+
+    fn save_meta(&self, name: &str, value: &str) {
+        self.base.save_meta(name, value);
+    }
+
     fn finalize(&mut self) -> crate::meta_plugin::MetaPluginResponse {
         // If already finalized, don't process again
         if self.is_finalized {